Men cannot Love

VINTAGE ARTICLE: Men Are Incapable Of Love: The Impact Of Princella Clark’s Message on Her Most Devoted Followers

By Supreme

Date: August 18, 2023

Brooklyn, NY - “Hey y’all, P is live,” a small WhatsApp group texted each other in excitement about the upcoming live panel discussion. The link was shared in the chat, prefaced with the excitement of one of the members. This was how most of us got our notifications. YouTube had been slack in alerting us to when Princella Clark was live.

More than twenty women from all walks of life around the world, and all races, joined the meeting. Germany, Ecuador, Canada, Florida, Texas, New York, and Arizona were just a few places where each of these women hailed from. Single mothers, childless women, Fashion Designers, and previous housewives all gathered into the Zoom Meeting. 

“I can’t see the screen”, one of the ladies shouted out. 

 “Here is the link” another woman said after taking herself off mute and inserting the link into the Zoom chat. 

Princella Clark was now live on YouTube.

“I can’t hear her”, another woman yelled out. The sound had to be adjusted for the ladies and everyone put themselves back on mute.

Cameras on. Sound was now on and all of the ladies tuning in from their cellphones, tablets, and laptops were now all tuned in. 

Princella was about to start speaking. She had been on a panel with another Black Male content creator. The topic? Are men the original AI? For an hour, Princella talked about her background, knowledge, and her very harrowing experiences surrounding the opposite sex. The show had been playing for an hour or more. The Zoom consisted of women who stood in their kitchens seasoning chicken for dinner or combing their daughters' hair, stayed silent. the occasional howl and “get his ass pastor P” was heard from whoever was brave enough to take themselves off mute. 

It was time for call-ins. The host of the show that Princella Clark was on, invited people to call in and speak to, who her followers lovingly doted as The Pastor. The first guest caller was a Hebrew Israelite. At onset, he was already upset with the context of Princella’s message. “Back in the day”, he started “Women had more traditional values than they have now. When I married my wife, she was 30 years old and a virgin. Women today are not like that." 

All the women on the Zoom call sat in tense anticipation, their eyes locked on the screen, ears attuned to Princella’s response. She took a deep, deliberate breath before speaking.

“What is it that your heart truly desires?” she began. “Children—because that’s the only way you’ll find virgins in abundance. Kids. And that aligns with what your religion teaches in Hebrew Israelites, right? The moment a girl gets her period, she’s ready to bear children. Y’all are pedophiles. All that nonsense you preach should be dismantled. I’m going to uplift these women, and they’re going to stop listening to you. They’ll protect their children from you because all y’all ever think about is fucking.”

She continued. 

“I think I saw a video of Brother Polite speaking with the Israelites, and the main thing y’all preach is that once a girl gets her period, she’s considered an adult. Seeking virgins means seeking children. Y’all don’t want grown women—you want someone you can control, and you’re using this so-called religion to justify your desires. That’s the real reason behind it. I don’t care what y’all are saying because my audience is women. I’m here to debunk and deprogram them from all the nonsense y’all spread. I’m helping women break free from these oppressive patriarchal religions. Fuck y’all’s god—I'm just telling you.”

More men had piled into the panel discussion, waiting for their turn to speak to Princella. The words “fuck your god” had rang out of her mouth and onto the heads of the men who had wanted to use their religion as a means to further their argument on what they believed the problem was with women today.

But what was the actual problem? How did we all get here? What was one thing that all women, regardless of race and sexual orientation, have in common?

In her previous YouTube videos, Princella calls attention to the common denominator in the majority of all women’s lives. Men and their violence against women. Wether it be hearing about the grusome death of Pashun Jeffery and her child at the hands of the child’s father Thomas Mosley, 21 who than later fed threw the child into a lake to be found later in the mouth of an alligator,  or hearing of the Baptist Minister and Certified Nursing Assistant Nathan Sutherland impregnating a woman in a vegatative state at his place of work, no one could deny this very loud observation. 

The news stories were crippling regarding men and their behavior throughout the world. Even in death, women are not protected from male violence and perversion. Funeral homes throughout the United States have ceased hiring male applicants due to increased incidences involving necrophilia. “Sex expert Lianne Young of House of Ardent tells The Sun Online: ‘The reason why he may have done this is to have a sense of no fear, and he could have acted on his sexual choices with more of a sense of bravado,’ in speaking about Mr. Khurum Shazada, and his sexual assault of a corpse. ‘His sick crimes weren’t discovered until 2008 when his semen was found on 19-year-old murder victim Karen Range, who had been nearly decapitated. In 2012 he also admitted having sex with the bodies of two other women — six-month pregnant Charlene Appling, 23, who had been strangled to death, and April Hicks, 24, who’d fallen out a third-story window.’”
Violence against women transcends race, class, and religious beliefs. The male is out of control and this is what Princella Clark teaches her followers.

In his 1997 book entitled ‘The Demonic Male’, Richard Wrangham writes about the female chimpanzee and her preference to not mate with her brothers. Wrangham writes, “One kind of relationship, however, stops her in her tracks. She doesn’t like to mate with her maternal brothers. Even when those males court elaborately, with shaking branches and rude stares and proud postures, female chimpanzees refuse their brothers. Normally, the female’s reluctance to mate with her brother marks the end of it. But occasionally a brother can’t stand being denied. She resists and avoids him. He becomes enraged. He chases [her] using his greater size and strength [and] beats her. She screams and then rushes away and hides. He finds her and attacks again. He pounds and hits and holds her down, and there’s nothing she can do. Out in the woods, there’s a rape.”

Regardless of race, Erica L. Smith (BJS Statistician) in her 2021 study, ‘Female Murder Victims and Victim-Offender Relationship’ writes, “In 2022, 501 Black females were murdered by males in single victim/single offender incidents, at a rate of 2.34 per 100,000. In comparison, the rate of white women murdered by males for that year was 0.99 per 100,000. Nationwide, across all races, 1,795 females were murdered by males in single victim/single offender incidents in 2019, at a rate of 1.18 per 100,000. In 2021, around 45,000 women and girls worldwide were killed by their intimate partners or other family members (including fathers, mothers, uncles, and brothers). This means that, on average, more than five women or girls are killed every hour by someone in their own family. Like all forms of gender-based violence against women and girls, femicide is a problem that affects every country and territory across the globe. According to the new report, in 2021, Asia recorded the largest number of female intimate partner and family-related killings with an estimated 17,800 victims; followed by 17,200 in Africa; 7,500 in the Americas; 2,500 in Europe; and 300 in Oceania.”

These alarming statistics were very well known to the women watching Princella on the panel. They were also very well known to men, but due to cognitive dissonance, many men present within the manosphere refused to acknowledge these violent occurrences. For months, the women in this small WhatsApp group hung onto every word that Princella Clark said. The ladies had all taken hours out of their days to digest Princella’s content. Her delivery was extremely hard to ignore. Equipped with scientific articles, current news events, and her own experiences, Princella was an expert in Male Psychology.

Her analysis?

Men are without a shadow of a doubt, incapable of love.

At first glance, this statement is difficult to comprehend, but in due time with further reflection, each woman had come to their own conclusion and the evidence that Princella presented was in fact, irrefutable.

Men are incapable of love.

After hearing it, one could not unsee it and this new vision and new thought regarding men resonated in the lives of thousands of her followers.
The panel discussion continued with Princella, and she continued to take calls from male guests who wanted to speak to her. Each one of them was more disappointing than the last.
“These muthafuckas have the same goddamn talking points,” one woman shouted in frustration at the questioning.

The ladies on the Zoom call roared in laughter.

In the manosphere, their ideal woman existed in the 1950s, and we all know her. At that time period, without being able to open her bank account, buy a house, or even decide where she would live, her existence is a testament to what the male in 2023 wants — a woman without basic human rights.

If you pay close attention, men consistently reveal their true colors.

“This is why you ladies need to stop listening to these men!” Princella screamed to her followers.
The women who followed her already knew that with each guest appearance she had made, men would confirm what Princella had been teaching. These men would spill out of their mouths the truth that far too many women already knew. Sex and control over women were their main desires, and this desire had very little to do with love. On the contrary, their constant voicing of what they believed was wrong with women, gave light to everything that was actually wrong with them. This is what Princella knew to be true and why she had spent countless hours encouraging her followers to not only stop listening to men but to also cease any contact engagement that was not deemed necessary. “These men are violent, angry, jealous, and unhinged and they use that love card on you women because that is all that they have to offer you ladies. You have been programmed to believe in these fairy tales and the belief that these men can love you and they can not. Many of them that are with you, do not like you and they are jealous of you and are even now trying to become you to invade your spaces and take over your resources,” she exclaimed.

Regarding “The Happily Ever After” programming that Princella Clark speaks of, Debra Fileta, a Licensed Professional Counselor, writes, “The struggle always occurs before the romance. Cinderella, single and alone, struggles to survive under the hatred of her stepmother. Snow White, hides in the forest with her seven dwarfs, hoping to protect her life from the evil witch. Beauty, held captive in the enchanted castle, waits patiently for the evil spell to be broken. Each one struggling, waiting, hoping. First comes the struggle, then comes the romance, and “poof”- the happily ever after. The thing about fairy tales is that there is always an underlying subliminal message that all problems and pain will end in the arms of true love. Although that mentality has set up young singles for anticipated excitement, it has also caused great despair.”

Plainly, for generations, women all over the world have been bamboozled into believing that men can love them. Princella Clark claims that this is a ‘carrot-and-donkey’ method to keep women subservient and in constant motion in changing themselves to obtain the male gaze and his ever-fleeting “love.” We have all seen what the quest for the male gaze looks like. In the early 1990's it was Pamela Anderson and her breast implants. Women all over the United States lined up to get a new rack just right to keep that special man in their life interested. Some women even claimed they didn’t feel like women without larger breasts, during that period. After that ‘male-gaze-surgical-pandemonium’ ended, BIG BUTTS and FLAT GUTS were all the new rave. The Brazilian Butt Lift craze had taken the world by storm and more and more women lined up, flew to Miami, and handed over their tax-refund checks to the best surgeon they could find. The quest for the male gaze had become like watching the movie “Death Becomes Her,” just a little less funny. Anyone watching women jump through these hoops would faint from exhaustion.

So with Princella’s message and every male podcast in America divulging the secret thoughts of men regarding how they feel about women, women were now opening their eyes and ears. In this context, men being incapable to love, is not that far-fetched. The actions of men, their behavior towards women, and their plethora of podcasts gave women almost scientific proof that men found women to be almost detestable. Outside of sex, labor, and child production, there was no interest in women, and men have made this abundantly clear.

These are the facts that Princella showed her audience time and time again.

“The nuclear family was a fucking invention to give men a wheelchair ramp in society because the governing patriarchy had used the male bodies for war and discarded them. They also stripped the rights of women, to further cripple the Divine Feminine, so that she could be more reliant on this beastly male, who has done nothing but abuse her since he got full power over her,” Princella yelled at a caller, who spoke about the nuclear family and the importance of men being in the home. “You men are in the home and don’t even wanna fucking be there,” she ended.
The ladies on the Zoom call were thrilled with delight.

“Get ’em, P. If the law didn’t make them pay child support, a lot of these men wouldn’t pay shit,” a woman said taking herself off mute and screaming to The Collective.

The call for a silent uprising of the ‘Divine Matriarch’ and the ‘Divine Feminine’ within Princella’s movement had arrived by way of men not shutting the fuck up. Them not shutting the fuck up was seen by many women as a blessing in disguise. The women in this WhatsApp group secretly thanked the high heavens that Amazon.com had ‘two-for-one’ sales on ‘Podcast Starter Kits’. Now women would know for sure what men actually thought of them, and with this information, women were finally made aware of something that they secretly knew inside of themselves all along, and that is, men really didn’t like them…not even a little bit.

Princella’s message was a powerful one, to say the least.

Three hours had passed.

The live panel discussion had ended. Princella was now off the screen. The Zoom share had stopped and the women in the call had all started to take themselves off mute. The ladies in the Zoom call had changed positions. They were now in bed and their rooms had been darkened by the sun that had set an hour prior.

Falling asleep was not an option.

All of the women wanted to see the end of the panel discussion. They all agreed that Princella had “cleared” every male caller effortlessly. The thought process of the men in the manosphere was predictable. At least eight men from around the country called into the show and every one of them called for women to go back to being “traditional.” Never mind that these men could not have fallen back into traditional roles themselves, it was only important if women knew their “place,” and that was for every woman, everywhere to fall back into the 1940s. The Zoom meeting had finally ended, and the women did not want to get off the call.

There was a brief silence.

Each woman sat in this virtual community space and wanted to verbally reflect on what life had been like before hearing Princella’s message. What had occurred before they found Princella Clark’s message was a consistent mixture of pain, betrayal, treason, and violence. All of these women have attributed the pain in their lives to be linked to the presence of a man. A man they worked for, bore children for, supported, married, and even prayed for. The consistencies were too much to ignore. Some of these women were wives, some of these women were mothers and some were even lesbians who, although, not having an ill experience with a male, could not ignore the staggering evidence of the male presence on the planet.
“…these men are so disgusting,” the first woman spoke breaking the three-and-a-half- hour silence.
“Yes, they are,” all of the ladies said in unison.
“It’s like they all have the same brain or something,” the girl from Germany chimed in.
“They do!!” all of the ladies shouted back to her while laughing at her observation.
This was how their nights, which slipped into early mornings always turned out. You would think that after listening to a live for three hours, the women would be exhausted.
This was not the case with this group.
“I feel so free after listening to her,” one woman said, “It all makes sense when she speaks,” she ended.
“Facts,” another woman answered her.
This was her first Zoom call. She was new to the group, a single mom going through a divorce, breastfeeding, and in need of community.
“When did you ladies all hear about Princella? I just found her on YouTube and I am hooked,” she ended smiling into the camera and holding her baby. Isolation, slight fear, and a sense of a newly found freedom permeated this virtual space.
These are the women who were warm with each other.
One by one, each woman shared her story of what life was like before and after hearing Princella Clark’s message.
“I was married for 10 years and got divorced” the first woman started, “because we had a son, my husband was mentally abusive and complacent with no success. We were better as friends than husband and wife. I didn’t want my son growing up in that household with that type of man as an example. After years of being with him, I needed therapy to be sure I did the work on myself. I wanted to get to the root of why I kept attracting the same guy even after my divorce. I used to be the player before my marriage because I partially understood the nature of a man. I’ve learned from a young age, unfortunately. After my divorce, I became a ‘Pick-Me’. It’s like I was desperate to have a man to love. I lost myself and therapy brought me back around. During the process of putting dating on pause and listening to other men and women on social sites talk about dating, a friend sent me a clip of Princella on TikTok. I found her point of view extremely interesting, but I moved on as I do with all social media clips. Then I saw another Princella clip and I was floored by her authority, power, and confidence while talking about men not being capable of love. She had me hooked. I looked for all of her social media profiles but she was very hard to find. Finally, I went on YouTube, and boom! All of her shows and live broadcasts were there. I immediately signed up for a low-tier membership and began to binge on her live shows. My world is forever changed,” she ended.
The women all agreed.

If they had heard of Princella Clark decades ago, many of them would not have gotten married, had children, or wasted their time on loving men and depleting themselves to no end. Many of them would have just traveled, opened businesses, and done much more with their time and energy. They were all robbed of their childbirth experiences, peace in their homes, and bodies. Some women at certain points in their lives, even lost their sanity. This was the slight pain that connected all of these women. They all mourned over the time and energy that they lost. These women wasted countless years on men and many of them agreed that, if they had heard Princella’s messages sooner, life would have been so different for them. Her message would have saved them years of abuse at the hands of men, unwanted children, and tragic divorce proceedings.
Another woman answered the original question.
“My biological father denied and abandoned me. Oddly enough, that was also my mother’s story. My attempts at gaining love from relationships with men, left me abused in damn near every sense of the word. Watching my daughters repeat that history had me broken-hearted. I started delving deep into the psychology of relationships. I was looking for tactics to make things work and how to help my daughters and granddaughters have a better life. I heard Princella in a clip on Facebook and I had to find out who this woman was. I was blown away by her perspective. When I heard her say “Stop centering men!!!” was when it clicked for me. Why have we been prioritizing those creatures at our own expense, and at times our demise?! Some of us were taught to be independent. It was so powerful to me. I am finally and honestly my priority, no longer worried about male romantic relationships.”
“Gurl same…lemme tell you. I was in my room with my toddler. I recently moved in with my parents after trying to do this single motherhood thing alone. Her message has taken me to the last step of my forgiveness /healing stage. Hearing Princella talk about male biology was so profound for me. Knowing male biology, I can forgive them, release the power they had over me and truly live FREE. I walk with confidence because I validate myself. I tell myself I am beautiful and that is because I can see it. Princella gave me that and I have dropped co-dependency because of what Princella showed me. I don't ever have to change that about myself for anyone.”
The ladies all laughed with each other as more and more women talked until dawn about their life stories.
“Princella’s message came along my timeline and cleared it all up! I thought I was supposed to do all the things to fix myself because I was getting the same results. I also thought that my end-all and be-all was to find me a partner and I was lacking if I did not have one. All of those thoughts were false!! I fix myself for me! I am all I need! Happiness is in my peace of mind and I can only find that within. I’m so grateful and FREE now that I understand these things. Life is looking up and I’m looking within,” she ended.
The sky was now a soft pink, and the women were still talking about their past and what new days would feel like without men being the center of their lives.
"Before Princella, I was a so-called serial monogamist. As soon as one relationship ended, I was in another one. I was stuck in a cycle of swiping on the apps and linking up with different men, looking for love and a relationship, only to be used and abused every time. I’ve been assaulted verbally, sexually, and spiritually by men. I’ve dealt with sexual harassment at just about every place I’ve worked. For me, the trouble started in college. I was very much preoccupied with my dating life instead of school. But every single man I have dated has fallen far short of expectations and I had to lower myself in every single relationship. I’ve seen pastors abuse and manipulate women in churches. I grew up watching my mom struggle to keep our family together while my father continued to put us in danger with his reckless behavior and drug use. I was in 4th grade when he went to prison for the first time. I had to grow up immediately and take on responsibilities not fit for a child. I’ve spent too much of my life searching for a fantasy. I gave up on men in the past but I was pressured by societal expectations telling me I was not complete if I wasn’t a mother and/or a wife. When I first heard Princella, I rushed to YouTube to find her content, angry that I hadn’t heard of her until now. If I could go back, I would do my entire life differently. Princella’s voice echoes the one that has been in my head, but I was too scared to listen to it. I feel more elevated each time I hear her speak. She has empowered me in a way I’ve never experienced. I walk with such authority now everywhere I go. I feel a love for myself that I’ve never felt before. I’ve never been more proud to be me, to be a woman, and to NOT be married. That burden of seeking relationships with men has been lifted, I can choose to live in peace and I can’t thank her enough for that.”
Princella Clark’s message spoke of true freedom for women, which was not a common talking point on YouTube. Every single Black woman content creator suggests that Black Women in particular should divest away from Black men and the Black community as a whole. Princella Clark teaches the opposite. “Men are, fucking, men,” she stated, “trying to date another race of them won’t change the fact of who they are biologically.”
Another woman took herself off mute to speak in the Zoom. “All jokes aside, there are no Black women content creators on YouTube talking about the problems with Abrahamic religions. Women on YouTube see the problems with religion but are so hellbent on accepting these ancient beliefs. I had been teaching a “Religious Trauma Syndrome” course and prior to the class, the women in the group had spent time talking about celebrity gossip and other nonsense that we witness in pop culture. I am not sure how the topic of Ciara and her baby daddy Future came up, but it did. We spoke about his behavior towards Ciara and how Black Men all over America considered her now husband a simp, for stepping up the plate, marrying her, and becoming a step-father to her son. One lady in the group said, “Well Princella Clark says that men are incapable of love, and it is hard to un-hear it.” My ears perked up and I immediately wanted to know more about this Princella Clark. I was told that her podcast on YouTube was called The High-Powered Podcast and I quickly went over to her page, paid for a membership, and spent a good two weeks watching all of her content. Best money ever spent. I never had an issue with men per se as I am a lesbian. I do have an issue with religion and that is why I became a fan of hers. I even started my own podcast after listening to her and being inspired by her call for all women to create. I now create and am free to lead more women away from all religious movements that have kept them in bondage for centuries. I will forever be grateful to her message,” another woman ended.
The early morning hours continued. Some women had fallen asleep while still on the Zoom call and others continued to speak to whoever was still awake. “What drew me to ‘Princella The Queen Maker’ aka ‘My Queen’ was Spirit, as well as a friend who knows me so well. I was lying in my bed feeling like a failure because of a task that I had been given. I wanted to attract a certain male. I was told to mesmerize him so that he would invest in my future wealth. Well, it didn’t go as planned because he is under ‘M-K-ULTRA MIND CONTROL’ and damn near brain-dead!! Knowing all the facts I was ready to give up on myself. I accepted defeat and waddled in my misery while sinking into a sunken place. I like mental stimulation, staying awake, and being in tune with what’s going on in the world spiritually. My friend sent me a TikTok clip of Princella being interviewed by Real Lyfe Productions. After I saw that clip, I lost it!! When she said that ‘men are incapable of love’, she began talking about the Amygdala and the Frontal Cortex. I sprang up from my bed screaming while thanking my ancestors and giving praise saying the Goddess MA’AT has risen!!! MA’AT (Goddess of Truth and Justice) is here to set us free!! It all clicked for me at that moment. It felt like the raging storms of Oya were rushing through my body!! After the last 20 years of hell being with men, I finally knew that it wasn’t me!! It is their Psycho-Virus parasitic asses that was ruining the planet! I then went to YouTube found her page and joined her Arc! I ordered her book and I also followed her TikTok page. I ordered and read all of her material and signed up for her email subscription. PeriodT!! I was taught by my Spirit Guides as a child “When you hear the truth, you will know it.” That’s all it took for me. She is The Truth, The Way, and The Light to FREEDOM for women all over the globe, and I’m blessed to be on her Arc.”
Silence.
Some of the women had drifted off to sleep. Other women in the Zoom sent links to watch their favorite movies. The sun had risen and moved into mid-morning.
“Good Morning Ladies,” were some of the texts received from those who were not on the Zoom call the night prior. Women sent in pictures of their morning walks, breathtaking skylines, and weather forecasts.
“It’ll be 120 degrees today,” the fashion designer said sending a screenshot of her Apple Watch to the group. All of the ladies wished her well and told her to be safe while navigating a normal life in hell.
“Tell Satan, I said to holla back,” the New Yorker said replying to her picture. All of the ladies laughed and checked in with the group throughout their day. Some shared their lunches, walks, and outfits that they had been wearing for the day. It was common to leave your phone unattended and come back to more than 500 missed texts from this WhatsApp group. The morning drifted into the early afternoon and all of the ladies still kept in touch with each other.
The next text from another woman in the group, made them all sit up straight.
“Oh shit y’all, P is live!”

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Princella Clark can be found on The High-Powered Podcast on YouTube and also at: princellathequeenmaker.com
‘West 4B Movement/The Collective’ is a WhatsApp group made up of more than 100 women who are all fans of Princella Clark. It was created on July 4, 2023.
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