The 4B Remedy

Why 4B is Necessary in a World of Rising Femicide

By Supreme

Brooklyn, NY - No relationship, no bond, and no societal expectation of love or loyalty is enough to protect women from male violence. PERIOD. Not even mothers of sons are safe from male violence. Sons killing the very women who gave birth to them is crazy work and it proves that male violence is not limited to partners or strangers—it exists within the most intimate of relationships. The fact that a mother, who nurtures and raises a boy, can become his victim highlights the unavoidable truth: men pose the greatest danger to women. 

We recently learned about a man who drugged his wife and invited random men he met on the internet to rape her while she slept. Some of these men were HIV-positive and carried other various STDs, yet he still allowed them to violate her. This woman had known him for over 30 years, gave him three children, and yet he did this to her. A woman doesn't have to be a feminist to be outraged and haunted by what happened to Madame Pelicot in France. 

One woman in my comment section said that the male species are not human, and after hearing the story of Gisele Pelicot, I couldn't agree more with that sentiment. The idea of the male species being the original artificial intelligence resonates with me more and more each day as I hear countless stories of women and children suffering brutal violence at their hands. Their capacity for harm extends beyond just women and children—they also inflict violence upon each other, something many women have no issue with. The fewer of them that exist, the better life would be for all women and their children.

Even the corrupt and useless United Nations acknowledges that every ten minutes, a woman or girl is killed by a partner or family member. These are not random, isolated incidents—they are part of a deeply entrenched, systemic pattern of male violence that spans across borders, cultures, and socio-economic backgrounds. The perpetrators aren’t just strangers; they are fathers, brothers, sons, and intimate partners—making it clear that male entitlement to women’s bodies and lives is not just a problem, but a global epidemic that cannot be ignored.

the 4B remedy

The 4B movement, which started in South Korea, has gained traction worldwide as women fight to reclaim their autonomy and survival in a world that profits off their suffering. Violence against women and children is a global business, and the idea that things will somehow get better is one of the biggest delusions women keep holding onto. In the absence of war, violence against women and children fuels the economy, and there are millions of hands that refuse to let that change.

Women need to stop playing themselves, thinking the world wants them safe. People only learn the hard way, and 4B is a lesson that men deserve for constantly playing in women’s faces. 4B starves men down, and that’s exactly how it should be—because at the end of the day, they deserve nothing. No companionship, no sex, no babies and no marriage. Nothing.

Despite decades of activism, policy changes, and legal protections, men continue to murder, assault, and exploit women at staggering rates. The justice system rarely holds violent men accountable, and police forces often fail to act in time, leaving women trapped in dangerous situations with little recourse. Economic dependency, societal pressures, and systemic misogyny force many women to remain in close proximity to their greatest threat, making it nearly impossible to escape the cycle of male violence.

Continuing to engage in relationships with men who display abusive behavior—despite clear evidence of their mistreatment of women worldwide—sends a troubling message to the legal system. It signals that the abuse isn’t severe enough to warrant real consequences and that the solution for women is simply to find the “right” man. However, the reality is that any man can appear “right” as long as the women around him conform to his expectations. The moment a woman steps out of line, violence can ensue.

Women are aware of this risk, yet many choose to ignore it because they have been conditioned to believe they are different—that they are special or immune to the fates of other women. This mindset allows them to distance themselves from the suffering of others, convinced that what happens to another woman could never happen to them. As a result, the cycle of abuse continues, and society fails to take women’s experiences seriously because, time and again, they return to relationships even after witnessing or experiencing brutality.

If a woman recognizes the warning signs and leaves, she has learned her lesson. But if she experiences male violence and continues to re-engage, believing that change is possible, this becomes deeply problematic. It’s also worth considering a reversal of roles—if men were the ones bearing children and enduring such mistreatment afterward, the human population might have ceased to exist centuries ago.

Women’s belief in their own exceptionalism—the idea that they are somehow different or capable of changing men—only perpetuates harm. The truth is, men do not change. The safer path is to avoid them altogether.